Angel Wings Costume

Black Sexy

8 Tips to be a Chic, Sexy Mom

Do you long to be a Chic, Sexy Mom?

By Tara Marino

My Top Tips and Must Dos!

 

1.)Do start to put yourself first, get out of your own way, put the laundry basket down and head straight to the mirror!  Look into your eyes and ask yourself “Am I putting my best self forward?”  If not “Why?”  Are you waiting for someone to give you permission to comb your hair, or paint your toes?  Do you really believe you do not have TIME to put something else on?   A simple sundress and flip-flops with painted toes can go a long way-and just as easy as throwing on sweats mind you.

 

Some cute and inexpensive ones here under $20.00  http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2920116?Category=&Search=True&SearchType=keywordsearch&keyword=flip+flops+in+All+Categories&origin=searchresults

 

2.)Use EVERY excuse in the book to be SEXY.  Yes you can be sexy in the carpool lane, yes you can be sexy at your kids t-ball game.  Here is a quick secret that will change your mommy mind set immediately.  When you are in public I want you to think to yourself (no need to say it out loud   “I am sexy and I know you want me, I could drive you wild!”  Feel free to make eye contact if you wish, be strong and confident.  This is so much FUN and it is AMAZING to see heads turn as you are meditating your secret mantra.

 

3.)Give up on the resentment.  It is old and it doesn’t work.  I don’t care that you are home with the kids and your husband is working lalala.  Get over it and DO something about it.  The number one thing that will kill any chance of you becoming a sexy mom is resentment (not to mention your marriage.)

 

4.)Start surprising your spouse and yourself!  One of the secrets my husband and I have when it comes to our marriage is that we do nice things for each other -with NO strings attached!  For example, this week has been a bit draining on us and Monday night my husband was EXHAUSTED!  I told him to go to bed early and that I would take care of the kids and put them to bed.  Not because poor me little mommy was going to be resentful and have one up on him, but because I know that adding to that bucket will ONLY benefit our relationship and our family.  I did it because I wanted to make him feel better, remember you got married because you love each other?  And would you believe it, I woke up today with a sore throat?  My hubbie picked the kids up from school, took care of dinner, and I spent the entire night in bed!  It is a beautiful thing when you remember you are here to help and not HURT each other!  This basic principle will make you a sexy mom by default, because you are in a confident secure relationship with yourself and your spouse.

 

5.)Wear Black Lace panties when it is that time of the month!  Yep that’s right!  No more of this period underwear, I am sick of hearing it!  Black is crucial during this time and make it lacey.  It will cover any leakage (sorry for the visual) but it will still allow you to feel sexy.  Why would you, during the time of the month when you feel the most bloated and unattractive, put a pair of panties on that make you feel worse?  Let’s see… I’m fat and miserable so I guess it’s time for the big white, tight britches that hug my rear and look like a Straight Jacket?  Nope throw them out-black lace panties are your new best friend.

 

6.)Spend quality time with your kids.  You know as moms we run around and feel like we need to be everything to everyone.  We have to pick up, drop off, make dinners, read stories, do baths…and the list goes on right?  Have you ever asked your kids WHAT they like doing with you?  The answer may surprise you!  When I ask my kids this question their answer is “Mommy we love it when you play tag with us!”  Do you hear that?  NOT the movies, or Disneyland, or bowling, or buying toys…Listen to your kids and spend the kind of time with them that THEY want, that is what makes it quality-not what you think they want!  That is a sexy chic mom.

 

7.)Slow the hell down.  Turn off the autopilot and ask yourself ‘Why did I become a mother?”  Spend five minutes journaling non-stop and answer this question.  Then look over your answer.  Are you participating in Motherhood the way you wanted to?  Are you fulfilling your own dreams about being a mom?  Or are you answering society’s expectations of what a mother should be?  A sexy mom remembers WHY and then owns that, making sure she is fully aware of her role.

 

8.)Ok this is a fun one.  Buy a black wrap dress, a casual one-this is one of my favorites

I want you to pick an occasion when you would typically wear something “frumpy” perhaps your child’s t-ball game for example.  I want you to wear your little black wrap dress, you can make it casual with a pair of flip flops.  Pull your hair back in a pony tail or bun (it takes two seconds for goodness sake)  et Voila!  I want you to see how EASY it can be to be sexy and chic.  Now if you want to get really crazy incorporate number 2 on this list and see what happens to your confidence!  I do this all the time, ok now I am letting out all my little secrets!:)

 

Here are some in every price range

*Under $150.00

Cher-Anthropologie

http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/productdetail.jsp?id=933026&navAction=jump&search=true&parentid=SEARCH_RESULTS

 

*Under $50.00

Moins Cher-Nordstrom

+Women's+Apparel&origin=searchresults">http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3005367?Category=&Search=True&SearchType=guidednav&keyword=black+dress+in+All+Categories+>+Women's+Apparel&origin=searchresults

 

*Under $25.00

Pas Cher-Target

http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Black-Elbow-Sleeve-Dress/dp/B001N0KEUW/sr=1-3/qid=1238648106/ref=sr_1_3/192-3610960-3209938?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=0&index=target&rh=k:black dress&page=1

 

Enjoy!  I would of course love to hear your stories as you incorporate these tips!

 

 

With love and beauty always,

About the Author

About the Author: Tara Marino is a Women's Lifestyle Expert and creator of The Pretty Panty Line. She works with women around the world to inspire and empower them to embrace their beauty, their passions and their true desires in life to fulfill their highest visions. Tara's mission is to empower women to make a global change in the worlds current economic, political and gender conscious. She can be contacted at Tara@ElegantFemme.com

Ready to start your own sexual revelation? Go to http://www.ElegantFemme.com/SexualRevelation.html

Black Sexy
where can i find black miss sexy trousers, because nearly every girl in my school has them?

they are black tight fitting trousers, sometimes have a silver belt buckle or just a zip and they have a red label reading miss sexy!

You want them because everyone else does?

1. If everyone else has them, ask someone at school...
2. Don't be a sheep...
3. Why the hell do you want tight trousers for school? You're meant to be learning...

Sexy Black Girl Giving A Lapdance In Her Skimpy Underwear

Sexy Bitch (on black) $12.99 Sexy Bitch (on black) - Art Print

Black Opera Gloves - Sexy $17.95 Do crazy nights just seem to fall into your hands? Well this Halloween you will be ready to receive them with warm and open arms as you boast these sexy Black Opera Gloves. Nothing says elegance like a pair of sleek and sexy black velvet gloves. These sleek and sexy Black Opera Gloves are made from a gorgeous stretch velvet that will hug your arm with their opera length. These gloves also come with an elegant faux bracelet and ring detail that will just put you in a class of your own.

Womens Sexy Black Boots $24.99 Are you a girl on the go-go? Well, these boots were made for walking….and dancing, standing, and flirting! If you're looking for the perfect shoes for your 60's look, then you need these Womens Sexy Black Boots! Our Womens Sexy Black Boots come with a pair of knee-high black vinyl platform boots! These would go perfectly with any go-go dancer look! You'll be stepping out in style in these sexy heels! So order these awesome boots today and take these boots to walk all over town!

Sexy Elvira Costume - Black $37.95 Are you a b-movie horror queen? Do you like watching scary movies that are so bad that they're good? Then you sound like the perfect person for this Black Sexy Elvira Costume! Our Black Sexy Elvira Costume comes with a floor-length black dress with a really high slit over one thigh and a low-cut collar! This also comes with a black belt and a dagger! Be sure to purchase a high beehive wig in black to complete this look! For a great Halloween costume that is both sexy and funny, order this Elvira costume today!

Adult Sexy Indian Princess Black Wig $21.97 Sexy Indian Princess BlackWig

Sexy Circus Costume - Sexy Cirque $48.95 You'll find this sexy clown under the big top. Everyone will want to clown around with you this Halloween when you wear this Sexy Circus Costume. This sexy outfit is perfect for showing off those little tricks you have been hiding from everyone. This five piece Sexy Circus Costume comes with a black, white and red dress with tiered ruffle hem and keyhole neckline so that you can show off what you have in your big top. Every great costume needs accessories and this costume includes a fantastic miniature circus hat with a rose detail, black and white clown style wrist cuffs and matching leg warmers.You'll find this sexy clown under the big top.

Sexy Temptress Black Wig $24.99 Sexy Temptress Black Wig This One Sexy Hair Do Includes: 21 inches long with alluring spiked style forehead. Available Sizes: One Size Fits Most Please note we cannot accept wigs for return unless they are in their original packaging, unopened, and sealed. Remember a wig cap (sold separately) to hold in your own hair. For wig care and styling tips click here.

Senorita Wig - Sexy Black $12.99 Hola, Senorita, would you like to dance? Make your presence heard, because in everyone room you dance or spin in, you'll be making heads turn! Men from all walks of life will revere you, when you shake your long, sexy black hair...even if it is fake hair. This Senorita Wig features a gorgeous, sexy black hair wig that makes you feel like you're waltzing into a salsa dancing recital. The Senorita Wig has an up-do design, with a curly hair piece that forms to fit on the forehead.

Sexy Black Widow Costume $42.99 Nightmare Black Widow Sexy Extra Small Spin a spider web of seduction with this vampire goddess! Includes: Long sleeve, low cut mini dress with lace inset bodice with traditional black widow hourglass front and lace spider-web wings. 100% Polyester Extra Small (1-3) Wig , Stockings, Choker and Shoes and sold separately. Additional Sizes: Small Medium Large

Sexy Black Natasha Wig Adult $18.97 Women's wig for plus size Halloween costumes - This sexy Natasha wig is the perfect match to go with a sexy Parisienne Halloween costume and truly authenticate...

Sexy Black Catsuit Womens Costume $35.97 Sexy cat costume includes catsuit. There is a lot you can do with this shimmering, jet black catsuit. The Sexy Black Catsuit Adult Costume is a skin tight costume with a keyhole back. What you do with this costume depends on how you ac...

Sexy Dishes: $10.16 Includes chefs, mixologists, chocolatiers, and winemakers.In their cool white hats and stained aprons, deftly wielding a saucepan or barking orders to a line cook, chefs have an undeniable sex appeal. Sexy Dishes: San Franciscospotlights some of the hottest cooks in the city. These are men and women who inspire passion in their staff and customers. Illustrated with sizzling black-and-white photos, the book uses lively chef profiles to offer a window into San Francisco's rich culinary scene. Each chef includes his or her top sexy recipe to let readers recreate the magic at home.

Sexy Angel Shoes (black) $29.97 Features a black sandal with black marabou trim angel wings and platform heel.

Sexy Racer Costume - Sexy Speed Race Romper $43.95 One, two, three, GO! You get to race to the finish line this Halloween, in a Sexy Speed Racer Romper. Blow everyone away, when you get out of your race car in the Sexy Racer Costume. The Sexy Racer Costume features a Sexy Speed Racer Romper that comes in black, with a demon checker board trimmed design. The Sexy Racer Costume also features a yellow triangle top that is exposed underneath. Leave your opponents trailing behind in the dust!

Sexy Witch Costume - Sexy Magic Spell Witch $49.95 Cast a spell on everyone you lock eyes with! As an enchanting, bewitching Sexy Magic Spell Witch, the possibilities for wickedness are endless. Make everyone surrender to your witchcraft in this Sexy Witch Costume, which features a black and purple mini dress with witch appliqué embroidery on the skirt portion. You even get to sport a devious looking witch hat and matching purple and black striped stockings with the Sexy Witch Costume. Be the Sexy Magic Spell Witch nobody will dare defy!

Black Sexy Anodized Titanium Barbell $7.99 Black Sexy Anodized Titanium Barbell Sexy barbell tongue ring designed with an anodized titanium surgical steel barbell. Anodized titanium barbell body jewelry. Specifications: 14 Gauge (1.6mm), 5/8" (16mm), Anodized Titanium, 316L Surgical Grade Stainless Steel Anodized Titanium Barbell Tongue Ring Body Jewelry

Black Red Sexy Belly Ring $7.99 Black Red Sexy Belly Ring They will definitely see you coming with this sexy belly ring. Say it all without saying anything with this word belly ring. Anodized titanium word logo belly ring. Specifications: 14 Gauge (1.6mm), 7/16" (11mm), Anodized Titanium, 5mm Ball

Black White Sexy Belly Ring $7.99 Black White Sexy Belly Ring They will definitely see you coming with this sexy belly ring. Say it all without saying anything with this word belly ring. Anodized titanium word logo belly ring. Specifications: 14 Gauge (1.6mm), 7/16" (11mm), Anodized Titanium, 5mm Ball

Flirty Aprons Women's Original Apron Take the monotony out of daily life by adding the exciting and sexy flare of a Flirty Apron. This apron's 2-ply construction, sturdy yet soft fabric, strong stitching and darling cut are an ideal match for all of your needs. All fabrics are uniquely designed so everyone can find their style. Flirty Aprons commits to having the highest quality aprons out there, with that perfect soft-cotton feel. O...

Attitude Apron Apron, Black Lingerie Apron, White, One Size Fits Most $14.14 2006 Features: -Black Lingerie.-Fully adjustable apron strap.-One size fits all.-Material: Poly-Cotton Twill Fabric.-Washing machine safe. Color/Finish: -Color: White. Dimensions: -Dimensions: 13'' W x 17'' L....

Macho Muscle Man Sexy Kitchen Cooking Apron $19.00 Macho Man Apron for Adults Only. Hot, Funny, Classy, Sexy Aprons. Great for a Gift, Souvenirs, Parties, & Halloween....

I Married a Witch [VHS] $14.98 This fun and stylish Rene Clair comedy gave two big Hollywood names--Fredric March and Veronica Lake--a chance to break away from their stereotypically serious roles (as intense leading man and film noir vamp, respectively) and exercise their funny bones. The sultry Lake stars as a Salem witch burned at the stake who returns to haunt the descendants of the Puritans who let her smolder, namely aspi...